online dating: day one.

a very young man emailed me and three men have "winked" at me. i've winked at more men than that. i don't really know what any of this means, but it feels like i'm being too aggressive, and it's a bit of a dance, do i email first? do i wait for him to email first? how flirty is too flirty? but i am having fun. and i have to approach this "thing" with an attitude of, just have fun with it. if nothing else,  hope and expect to have some fun. anything extra is gravy. i think that's a good way to go through life; i'm going to give it a try. 

i'm hoping that because i'm using a site you must pay for there will be more men who are serious about dating. but there are weirdos everywhere, like people with user names that reference what good kissers they claim to be. sir, do you think i'm going to call your bluff? NEXT!

in other news, the white sox are on a roll and i'm writing a letter to my 16 year-old self, thanks to a push from a really lovely woman with an amazing blog. i can't wait to finish this letter and share it. 

i'm in love with this song. it's the "pick of the week" at starbucks! go and get yourself a free song code. go now!